Will You Be Ready To Move On
We really can’t determine whether making up or moving on is the more appropriate move for a heart in pain. Although one would still want to be friends with the ex, what is at stake here and is on the verge of a more serious peril is the emotion of a person. Holding on to a relationship that has long gone became sour is putting one’s self in a more painful wreckage of the heart.
Say goodbye when it’s really time to bid your partner goodbye. Make it up when you see that there’s still a chance for you to be together again. The most important thing now is you know when and where to stop.
Do You Spend more time Making Up than Making Out?
An argument, whether serious or petty, is oftentimes the cause of fighting in a relationship. Some people find arguing and fighting damaging while others consider it as a huge turn on. People with this kind of outlook often end up in a steamy love making. But this kind of making up in a relationship will do no good at all.
How Long has it been since You’ve made Plans Together?
I’m not talking about plans to go to the kids dance recital or dinner at your parents. I’m talking about plans for the after the kids graduate and move out. Have you talked about where things are going down the road or can you even see past one day at a time? There’s something to be said for living in the moment but when you’re building a life together you should be looking to the future with one another as well.
Do You Know Each Other’s Dreams?
To have someone to share your dreams with is the top reason why people have their partners. Planning your future life with your partner in it is more inspiring and invigorating compared to dreaming it all for yourself.
If the relationship kills the beautiful dreams you have, call it quits and move on.
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